#5. Don’t Interrogate Her
No girl wants to feel like she’s being interviewed at the bar. Stop bombarding her with questions. You can steer the conversation in the exact same direction making statements. For example:
Instead of this: “Are you from Boston?”
Say this: “You look like a Boston girl.”
If you’re right she’s liable to be impressed. It shows you have an eye for detail, particularly about women. If you’re wrong, she’ll get a chuckle out of it and probably tell you where she’s from and the conversation continues. Think about some of the questions you’ve fumbled your way through in the past with women and see if you can come up with statements that lead the conversation toward their answers instead.